We are all exposed to storms, and at some point in our lives, we will face a situation in which we have to decide what to do with our storm. I have decided to dance in the rain. For me, this means being grateful for what I have today and for what I hope for in the future. The storm in which I am still dancing has allowed me to grow in many areas. I have been able to focus on myself, on my goals, on what makes me happy. I have learned to renew my way of thinking and also to stop excusing the behaviors of others. I have learned to step back when I am in situations or places that are not healthy for me. I have been able to make difficult decisions with a clear mind. But above all, and most importantly, I have learned to give myself a second chance. I think that in the first 45 years of my life, I spent it giving second chances to everyone except me.

Today I turn 45, and reflecting on the past 45 years, I have realized how difficult it has been for me to live from who I am. I have always sought validation and acceptance. And what human being doesn’t? From the moment a baby is born, they already seek the love and approval of their parents and loved ones. But the needs of an adult go beyond living for the validation and acceptance of others. Today I live accepted and validated by the most important person I must love and please: myself!